Well, after banging my head and trying to make things difficult, I finally have the relay working with my g540 to control my spindle motor. Guess I just wasn't thinking and after getting a boot from my friend, it's purring like a kitten.
I've included two diagrams of the wiring using a 5vdc psu or a 48vdc psu.
Comments, corrections, and suggestion are welcome........
Much thanks to Marris for the 48vdc wiring suggestion.
Jeff
Use at your own risk and don't try this at home