j-radkemachine,
I have read this thread with interest and normally don't involve myself in discussions like this. I will make an exception this time. It's obvious you are unhappy and are a hard worker. What's not obvious is whether you have talked to your father about this? Have you? I know that I would love the opportunity to talk to my father one more time but that time is long gone. The forum is not the place to solve your problem. I think the negative posts you got is because most everyone here knows the answer. Go talk to your father, and not in the business setting. Talk to him as your father and not your boss! I'll bet you he will listen!
Mike
No greater love can a man have than this, that he give his life for a friend.