I'm hoping to get my mill up and running by the weekend, so I've been exploring other options. What are your thoughts on this... not to take away from your sweet design, but I thought it might work.
I measured the ID to 35mm and OD to 61mm of the preload spacer, so we have that much room to play with for the spring spacer thing. I found an NSK document stating various preload forces for a 7007C bearing.
PDF download | Catalogs and CAD drawings | NSK Global (see page 7 of 11, labeled 152/153) They state loads of 60, 120, 250, and 490 Newtons as Extra Light, Light, Medium, and Heavy, respectively. This translates to approximately 6, 12, 25, and 49 kg, or 13, 26, 55, and 108 lbs. I assume our Tormach will want something in the "medium" range, or even the "light" range if you're running at maximum RPM all the time, per Tormach's suggestion of less preload for higher speeds.
You can get a belleville spring washer
https://www.mcmaster.com/#94065K85 that has a working force of 30lbs at a 0.68mm displacement. It would fit over the spindle with 0.5mm play and the outer portion could rest on the preload ring. Two could easily be stacked for 60lbs, and then as the system heats up it would reduce to somewhere between light and medium preload levels. Or does preload increase with heat?
I could be totally missing something, but perhaps it's worth a shot?